修复Windows CI的一些突发新增的不稳定现象：

    清理服务器后台未正常退出的进程
    支持外部手动修改cache缓存目录

* add win_capi_tar in paddle_build.bat

* tar capi lib for publish

* add in gen_fluid_lib func

 [CHERRY-PICK2.1]Remove paddle_custom_op dynamic libraries, and link to FLUID_CORE on windows (#32583) (#32769)

* Remove paddle_custom_op dynamic libraries, change link to FLUID_CORE on windows, and check copy_to

* fix CI

* clear CUDA compile environment on windows

* fix Windows CI

* fix Windows CI

* fix Windows CI

* fix Windows CI MP compile and environment install script

* clear Windows CI environment

* clear Windows CI environment

* clear Windows CI environment

* fix error for long args

* remove unneccessary code

* added ut check on windows,notest,test=windows_ci

* debug,notest,test=windows_ci

* debug,notest,test=windows_ci

* fix bug,notest,test=windows_ci

* added ut check

* test for new ut add on windows

* test,notest,test=windows_ci

* fix bug,notest,test=windows_ci

* test

* test

* test

* test,notest,test=windows_ci

* test,notest,test=windows_ci

* check added ut on windows

* only fetch upstream develop

* modified according comment

* Update run_unittests.sh

* Update run_unittests.sh

* use busybox run test on windows openblas

* fix error

* fix disable_quick and nightly lable issue

* add retry on windows openblas

* fix bug

* use one file to run cpu and gpu tests

* fix with grep warning

* fix syntax error

* change run_unittest to run_unittest_gpu

* Update run_unittests.sh

fix error

* [Parallel UT]improve Parallel UT level on Windows/Linux

* [Parallel UT]improve Parallel UT level on Windows/Linux

* [Parallel UT]Improve Parallel UT level on Windows/Linux

* [Parallel UT]Improve Parallel UT level on Windows/Linux

* fix CI

* modify windows CI to VS2017

* modify windows CI to VS2017

* modify windows CI to VS2017

* add precision test for windows ci exclude check_added_ut

* fix error

* added PRECISION_TEST parameters

* fix format error

* fix some problem of Windows custom op

* fix some problem of Windows custom op

* fix some problem of Windows custom op

* [2.0.1]Support New Custom OP on windows

* fix CI

* fix code style

* fix CI

* fix CI

* fix coverage

* fix CI

* fix CI

* optimize unity build, test=develop

* fix code style error, test=develop

* fix code style error and test /MP settings, test=develop

* Add the ipipe log param prefix

1. add the prefix;
2. using Colon before the metric values;

* 增加效率云日志指标收集前缀

暂未验证windows bat的这个字符串替换是否正常

* Preserve The Old Format Metrics During The Transition Period

Please DELETE the old format metrics log finally.
The period man last for a week.

* ipipe_log_param + ccache and clcache ..

Fix 3 Windows Unittests

test_fuse_all_reduce_pass: Paddle cannot run multiple-GPU on Windows so set single visible GPU flag
test_feed_data_check_shape_type: Paddle cannot run multiple-GPU on Windows so set single visible GPU flag
test_tsm: Winodws GPU size is not enough so decrease batch size and data size.

* Add the strategy of skipping cc/cu test compilation and execution in CI, test=develop

* fix if error with CI_SKIP_TEST, test=develop

* fix add properties to test error on Linux/MAC, test=develop

* fix set test properties of test_code_generator error, test=develop

* remove test codes and advance judgment of file modification on Linux, test=develop

* rename CI_SKIP_TEST to CI_SKIP_CPP_TEST, test=document_fix

* Add branch judgement on Linux, test=develop

* Fix bf16 activations test for softmax and gelu

* Resolve conflict

* Flags assert condition more general, print output if pattern not found

* removed test_flags_use_mkldnn form skip list regarding #29080 descr

* test ccache hit statistics, test=develop

* test ccache hit statistics, test=develop

* add cache hit statistics, test=develop

* fix no percent symbol erro on windows, test=develop

* remove switch, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows CPU.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows GPU, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Add option in windows ci script, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Optimize parallel compiling, test=develop

* remove limit of parallel compile and skip some ops in UB, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* fix test_eye_op unittest failed, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Linux, test=develop

* set default WITH_UNITY_BUILD=OFF, test=develop

* Move unity build rules into a single file and add comment, test=develop

* optimize parallel compilation, test=develop

* fix undefined reference error on coverage ci, test=develop

* fix win ci failure, test=develop

* add ci test, test=develop