* "add c++ side kernel selection"

* "add multiple kernel op test"

* "kernel selection only support cudnn"

* "better formatter"

* "small fix with UseCPU"

* "depends on change interface Get(Place, Library)"

* "fix CI"

* "fix python cudnn test"

* "leave the register cudnn op to another PR"

* "fix CI"

* "use all kernel by default"

* "fix CI"

* conv cudnn 3d

* update test case

* update

* update

* follow comments and remove groups from helper

* update

* refine

* update

* follow comments2

* update

* fix compile

* init commit

* change some dir name

* Simplize Gradient Check

* Stash

* Extract apply_backward_pass to backward.py

Rename apply_backward_pass to append_backward_ops

* Use graph API to check gradient

* Fix ci

* Fix CI

* Fix backward for double precision

* Stash

* Fix CI

* Fix ci

* Ignore GRU test

* Ignore xe op

* Fix CI

* Fix softmax with xe gradient

The correct equation should be IG = OG * (d_softmax_with_xe())

* Fix typo

* Fix merge error

* Disable LRN

* add cudnn_conv_op

* WIP

* update

* update

* fix grad check

* use platform::memory

* add support group for cudnn

* update

* follow comments

* fix onlycpu build

* update cuda define

* follow comments

* follow comments

* merge with updates

* fix compile error

* follow comments

* follow comments