【PRIM】Support use operator's output metadata info  in constructing static backward composite (#50043)

* [prim] support custom target_gradients

* support infershape after append one gradop

* [prim] add simple net test

* fix test_loop segment fault bug

* [prim] fix infer shape segment fault bug when output of grad_op_desc is empty

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* proto type of composite grad in paddle

* refactor composite api with phi

* fix compile error

* support static graph code-gen for squeeze op

* generate static graph code of unsqueeze

* refine op name

* fix compile error

* add extra output in op_compat

* remove debug log

* fix clang compile error

* support prim switch flag

* support prim switch flag

* fix dygraph error

* merge develop

* add code_gen

* add necessary files without codegen

* fix code_gen bug

* add deps

* modify igmnore

* add ignore

* delete std cout

* add composite logic for backward.py

* add tanh first order grad composite

* support enable_prim flag for static graph

* throw expection when both GrapOpMaker and GradCompOpMaker not been registered

* reorganize the directory of prim api tests

* fix windows error

* add eager_utils

* add eager_utils

* modify code gen

* add composite parse

* add unittest for get_grad_op_desc

* code optimize

* fix static test on windows

* support generate static graph code for imag and real op

* fix windows compile error in test_static_prim

* merge develop

* disable test eager in inference

* prim code gen

* disable eager compile in inference

* origin_yaml codegen success

* rm other file

* rm gitignore file

* code_style

* add eager test

* code_style

* clear #

* merge develop

* clear #

* remove useless files

* modify static test

* support bool flag from singlton

* merge develop

* recover git ignore

* fix conflict

* clear prim_gen

* recover git ignore for generated op

* parse_yaml success

* fix test compile error

* remove some tests

* add python test

* code_style

* revert parse_utils+ clear prim_gen

* fix some name issue

* add composite code gen

* modify backward yaml

* fix static composite grad maker code gen

* remove addtional files

* add some static funcs unit test

* fix some bugs

* fix composite grad maker register code gen

* optimize some functions

* modify gen cmake

* add more api gen

* add header

* modify static

* add static expand unsqueeze

* comments

* modify compopmaker

* revert

* modify gen name
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