* update include directory

* fully support C++ extension, pass unittest

* fix include directory

* support both extension and operator in one file

* polish testcase

* add jit unittest

* update third_party.cmake, pass CI test

* fix cmake

* fix setup

* fix inference, fix unittest precision

* fix unittest precision

* fix inference_lib cmake

* try fix setup, try fix inference_lib

* try fix inference_lib pybind

* fix mix_op_extension, fix inference_lib

* fix mix_op_extension, fix inference_lib

* change cmake

* change cmake

* add compile flags

* add Python.h headerfile

* add test_custom_plugin_creater cmake

* comment compile flag

* pass all CI

* pass all CI

* comment compile flag

* try solve test_custom_plugin_creater link error

* try solve test_custom_plugin_creater link error

* polish codes

* remove windows compile flag

* remove python_include_path

* update pybind11, 2.4.3->2.6.0

* update pybind11, 2.6.0->2.10.0

* update pybind11, 2.10.0->2.6.0b1

* update pybind11, 2.6.0b1->2.6.0, start fix unittest

* fix pybind11 2.6.0 VarBase print error

* fix pybind11 2.6.0 VarBase print error

* handle PADDLE_ON_INFERENCE

* modify according to reviewer

* fix cmake

* cmake decouple pybind_util when not ON_INFER

* cmake decouple pybind_util when not ON_INFER

* remove copy of inference_lib.cmake

* change pybind.cc headerfile fluid->phi

* fix typo error

* pass CI-coverage

* add isort config

* isort all files

* update config

* re-blacken python code

* temporarily disable date and diff_py_file

* skip a format

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* Remove old custom OP to reduce whl package volume

* [Custom OP]Remove old custom OP to reduce whl package volume

* support macos

* auto specify PADDLE_WITH_MKLDNN and remove Interpretper

* remove print

* fix check abi

* fix windows

* fix compile flags

* [2.0.1]Support New Custom OP on windows

* fix CI

* fix code style

* fix CI

* fix CI

* fix coverage

* fix CI

* fix CI

* support setup.py to compile custom op

* move file into paddle.utils.cpp_extension

* support python setup.py install

* refine code style

* Enrich code and add unittest

* Polish code and api doc

* fix cpp_extension not include in package

* fix relative import

* fix os.makedirs exist_ok param compatibility PY2

* add compile flags in test_jit_load