[XPU] Remove lite_xpu ut lite_resnet50_test since fusion pass changes introduced precision diff. test=develop (#30122)

* refine paddle inference api
Co-authored-by: Nnhzlx <nhzlx.dragon@gmail.com>

- fluid和lite精度比较替换为相对误差

- 添加了fluid-lite子图方式运行resnet的单测
- 修改了依赖Lite的git commit id

* Add a interface to enable cudnn for inference.

* Add cudnn_placement_pass.
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* Set the default value of cudnn_enabled_op_types to null.
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* Write the common basic class, placement_pass_base, to refine the codes.
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* Call EnableCUDNN in unittest.
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* Refine cudnn_placement_pass tester.

* Enable the testing of cudnn_placement_pass in inference's unittest.
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* Add the check of op kernels.
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