* refactor the optional tensor

* remove optiona<MetaTensor> in InferMeta

* fix bug

* fix optional<vector<Tensor>>

* fix bug

* fix rmsprop

* fix amp of eager_gen

* polish code

* fix deleted code

* fix merge conflict

* polish code

* remove is_nullopt_

* fix merge conflict

* fix merge conflict

* move momentum, rmsprop to phi; test=develop

* update

* update

* update

* update

* udpate; test=develop

* fix xpu npu bugs; test=develop

* fix npu bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* fix conflict; test=develop

* add meshgrid;

* update

* polish code

* polish code;

* fix bug

* format; remove useless code

* fix npu bug

* fix bug