* cherry-pick PR #27933

* fix: cuda version is in varibale CUDA_VERSION in 1.8 cuda.cmake

* close unittest failed temporarily

* cherry-pick PR #27544, fix layer_norm and softmax bug in tensorRT

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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