cherry-pick : #46016, #46021, #45974

* [Sparse]Sparse add support gpu (#45974)

* [Sparse]Remove unused code (#46021)

* [Sparse] Add infer meta (#46016)

* fix infermeta bug for vector input and output

* add unittest

* add tensor array

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* update by comment

* update code

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* Move classes from mkldnn_reuse.h to onednn_reuse.h

* Move more functions from mkldnn_helper.h to onednn_helpper.h

* Change MKLDNN to OneDNN in VLOG message
Co-authored-by: NSilv3S <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* fix split bug

* solve function redefine

* fix fluid.layers.split and add unit test

* delete splitInferMeta register in unary.cc

* modify test_split_op GPU unit test

* modify test_split_op GPU unit test place param

* refactor split op and fix infershape bugs

* add () in && and ||

* fix split C++ unit test

* fix split infershape

* [OpAttr]Adapt tensor axis for reduce_min/max/mean/sum/prod

* remove fluid kernel and activate phi kernel

* fix parameter error

* transfer mkldnn part

* modify header file path

* fix compile error

* transfer special case

* fix lod setting and special case for layout setting

* add testcase and refine code

* transfer memcpy_d2h from fluid to phi

* refine arg check and add comment

* fix cannot fallback to phi kernel

* fix gpu_context host alloc when tensor size = 0

* add kernel for std::vector<DenseTensor> args

* fix bugs in MemcpyD2HMultiIOKernel

* remove useless header file

* polish format

* fix typo

* add testcase for cudapinned place

* refine check condition in test

* polish error message

* polish error message

* remove header in fluid  directory

* merge memcpy_h2d and memcpy_d2h into one file, change register method to simplify implementation

* fix code style check

* remove cudaDeviceContext

* remove more template

* fix rocm compile

* remove alias name CUDADeviceContext

* fix compile

* fix tests

* revert changes

* infer context fix place error.

* update

* update

* support auto fallback to  cpu kernel for cusom device

* fix some problem of kernel fallback

* adapt mkldnn kernel in PHI

* fix ci compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* delete comment

* fix compile bugs in windows-inference

* delete code for converage

* modify code by review

* modify code by review

* add todo

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugsx

* add sparse api coalesce

* fix init()

* delete test_device_context

* replace CPUDeviceContext with CPUContext

* fix test_scalar

* remove dot_op.cc

* fix compile

* unify cpu context

* fix init()

* delete test_device_context

* fix test_scalar

* perfect copy

* deal with conflict

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugs

* change code format

* deal with conflict

* modify code by review

* fix ce bugs

* fix ce bugs

* add lo

* perfect code format

* deal with conflicts

* Remove unnecessary including for pstring.h

* Fix typos

* make all phi kernels to 2(host/device) static libraries directly

* fix calling kernel_declare

* fix compile

* fix cpu compile

* fix rocm compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu kp compile

* fix inference compile

* add embedding yaml

* fix infermeta bug

* fix bug of selected_rows infer_meta

* fix selected_rows

* add unittest

* make data transform inplace when tensor is on gpupinned in new dygraph

* fix unittest

* remove storage

* add glog include

* add glog include

* add glog include

* remove shared_storage

* fix bug

* fix rnn bug

* support construct scalar using non-cpu tensor

* fix bugs when run unittest

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when move copy

* perfect unit test

* perfect unittest

* update according to comment

* int_array supports constructed by gpu tensor

* add some test

* polish code

* adjust full api

* add unittest

* add unittest
Co-authored-by: NYuanRisheng <yuanrisheng@baidu.com>

* change the output format of C++ backward api

* fix merge conflict

* fix sparse api code auto-gen

* fix eager_gen bug

* fix bug of output is null

* fix bug of conv2d_grad_impl

* fix optional grad

* fix bug of eager-gen double_grad

* fix bug

* fix multiply_double_grad bug

* remove node pruning

* unify utils naming style

* polish details

* optimize the performanece of sum api

* optimize IsDenseTensorInput

* remove debug log

* add variant and replace any

* split attribute