[Phi]Move Relu/Cos/Sin/Tan/Acos/Asin/Atan/Sinh/Cosh/Asinh/Acosh/Atanh kernels in Activation to Phi (#40175)

* move activation op

* adjust code format

* fix compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* code format adjust

* code format adjust2

* activate ci status

* modify according to comment

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

* add cinn_instruction_run_op for launching execution of a cinn instruction

* fix multi definition compilation error

* update cmake

* fix bug at infershape

* fix compile error due to lacking header file

collecting input variables that only shape needed of each subgraph that compiled by CINN in build_cinn_pass, and expose them to memory optimization of framework passes by declaringDECLARE_INPLACE_OP_INFERER in cinn_launch op.

1. add a subdirectory named `cinn` in `paddle/fluid/operators` directory and move releated files into it
2. seperate CinnLaunchContext class from `cinn_launch_op.h` and put it in a  new independent file named `cinn_launch_context.h`, so that it can be included by others clearly.

* Add the `GetFetchNames` method in CinnGraphSymbolization.

* Use unordered_set instead vector as the type of fetch_var_names.

* Reuse the definition of kCompilationKey.

* Use CompileOptions to set fetch_var_ids.

* Update the argument passing of GraphCompiler.Build.

* Fix some bugs in CinnGraphSymbolization::GetFetchIds.

Add FLAGS_allow_cinn_ops & FLAGS_deny_cinn_ops for controlling op types used in training with CINN. (#36842)

* Update UT test_parallel_executor_run_cinn.py.

* Add FLAGS_allow_cinn_ops & FLAGS_deny_cinn_ops & FLAGS_cinn_ops_delim.

* Use the custom StringSplit function and remove the FLAGS_cinn_ops_delim flag.

* Add FlagController test.

* Apply lock to the cache_ only in CinnCompiler.

* Add VizGraph & ReadableKey method for CinnCompiler.

* Update the dot style of VizGraph in CinnCompiler.

* Init the functions of CinnCompiler.

* Add the unit test for CinnCompiler.

* Fix some compilation errors.

* Update the UT of cinn_compiler.

* Use Decomposer&OpFusion passes in CinnCompiler::CompileGraph.

* Update some comments.

* Uncomment some includes in build_cinn_pass.cc.

* Use refs instead of ptrs as returned types of FindGraph & Compile in
CinnCompiler.

* Use the merged CinnGraphSymbolization functions in CinnCompiler.