Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.

* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment

* add copyright hook

* add copyright hook

* refine copyright hook

* "test copyright hook"

* fix check style

* fix ci

* "unified operators"

* "add CUDNN register"

* "add use cudnn attribute"

* "add attribute"

* "test conv tranpose op"

* "remove duplicated attr"

* "fix op test"

* "add attribute to set cudnn"

* "add more log"

* "need layout op register support"

* "add more log"

* "change GetExpectedKernelType "

* "fix Get attr in conv_op"

* "fix CI"

* "fix tests"

* "removed kernel priority fallback"

* "fix CI"

* "fix stack pointer bug"

* "refine buggy interface"

* "add const cast to save life"

* "fix get_output_with_grad"

* "fix op test with dataformat"

* ""fix pooling

* "fix pooling test"

* "fix CI"

* "fix with_gpu error"

* "add transform needed functional check"

* "fix unpack list error"

* "comment out parallel.do temporary"

* "fix CI"

* "fix compile doc error"

* "make threshold larger"

* "add c++ side kernel selection"

* "add multiple kernel op test"

* "kernel selection only support cudnn"

* "better formatter"

* "small fix with UseCPU"

* "depends on change interface Get(Place, Library)"

* "fix CI"

* "fix python cudnn test"

* "leave the register cudnn op to another PR"

* "fix CI"

* "use all kernel by default"

* "fix CI"

* conv cudnn 3d

* update test case

* update

* update

* follow comments and remove groups from helper

* update

* refine

* update

* follow comments2

* update

* fix compile

* init commit

* change some dir name

* Simplize Gradient Check

* Stash

* Extract apply_backward_pass to backward.py

Rename apply_backward_pass to append_backward_ops

* Use graph API to check gradient

* Fix ci

* Fix CI

* Fix backward for double precision

* Stash

* Fix CI

* Fix ci

* Ignore GRU test

* Ignore xe op

* Fix CI

* Fix softmax with xe gradient

The correct equation should be IG = OG * (d_softmax_with_xe())

* Fix typo

* Fix merge error

* Disable LRN

* add cudnn_conv_op

* WIP

* update

* update

* fix grad check

* use platform::memory

* add support group for cudnn

* update

* follow comments

* fix onlycpu build

* update cuda define

* follow comments

* follow comments

* merge with updates

* fix compile error

* follow comments

* follow comments