* support ninja

* fix mkldnn on windows

* fix mkldnn on windows up1

* up2

* up3

* fix gflags

* BUILD_BYPRODUCTS_OPTION -> BUILD_BYPRODUCTS_ARGS

* use CMAKE_COMMAND

* up x

* cmake-lint

* update

* fix bug when use extern_openblas and generator is ninja

* modify according to zhouwei's comment

* make third_party's cmake get source code directly 2

* modify according to zhouwei's comment

* eager needs mkldnn to compile

* Support Mac M1 make

* cmake version check

* Support MIPS arch.

fix bug that sourcecode of third_party can't be cached correctly,and add cache for xbyak and openblas (#22772)

* Fix openblas to support compile on Windows when WITH_MKL=OFF

test=develop

test=develop

* test=develop, Support for online compilation of openblas

* test=develop, Modify the prefix of openblas static library

test=develop