[Inference Tensorrt] Add attr for trt engine and handle the input seq problem for ernie var len. (#33575) (#33622)

* support ernie trt-int8 for inference

* fix reshape

* update trt engine addplugin name.

* update

* fix tensorrt output varible reshape

* move padding shape x 1 x 1 in ernie to qkv and fc

* update layer name

* fix softmax when input is dynamic, fc not padding any more

* fix varlen

* move fc x_dim assert to op_teller

* remove -DSUPPORTS_CUDA_FP16 in cuda.cmake

* comile with cuda9

* add some unittest

* notest;test=coverage

* add unittest for trt plugin swish && split

* update ernie unittest

* fix some error message

* remove repeated judgement of CUDA version in mbEltwiseLayerNormOpConverter

* fix comile errror when CUDA_ARCH_NAME < Pascal"

* fix comile error

* update unittest timeout

* compile with cuda9

* update error msg

* fix code style

* add some comments

* add define IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16

* rename IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16 to CUDA_ARCH_FP16_SUPPORTED

* fp16 result ok

* change -DWITH_NVINFER_PLUGIN toconfig.EnableTensorRtOSS

* auto detect special slice op converter for ernie with trt oss

* ernie oss only support fp16

* fix special_slice_plugin serialize bug

* matmul in tensorrt ok

* ernie unittest ok

* add matmul tensorrt unittest

* remove demo code

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* add dynamic plugin support.
test=develop

* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
test=develop

* add emb eltwise layernorm
test=develop

* can run dynamic shape ernie
test=develop

* fix ci
test=develop

* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

test=develop

* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt