* infermeta context init design

* support infermeta called in fluid op

* add hasattr and attr methods

* add dygraah GetVarPtrs support

* rename arg_map_context to arg_map_utils

* add registry for arg map func

* resolve conflit

* refactor op utils design

* polish meta config

* fix details

* remove hasattr method

* resolve conflit

* revert cmake order change

* revert some change

* change init pos

* fix compile faileed

* fix typo

* fix inference failed

* fix windows ccompile failed

* polish format
Co-authored-by: NWang Huan <wanghuan29@baidu.com>

* auto gen include headers

* move to pten.cmake

* add kernel for c++ api

* fix compile bugs

* fix kunlun compile bugs

* perfect cmake

* fix compile bugs when run ci-inference

* fix compile bugs

* add non-raw kernel for fluid op

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bug

* rename register marco

* fix error changing

* fix format error

* refactor matmul directory in pten

* fix merge conflict

* add dot_grad kernel

* add dot_grad kernel in pten

* add matmul_grad kernel

* update the code

* delete useless code in fluid

* fix some bug of running matmul grad kernel

* fix merge conflict

* refactor some code

* refactor code

* add pten kernel cmake

* add pten kernel cmake function

* fix compile error

* add enforce include for full kernel

* fix compile failed

* change cuda to gpu

* fix cmake function error