* [Kunlun] PR1:Support one Kunlun card training in parallel executor (#29337)

* [Kunlun] PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor (#29574)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29926)

* add bkcl.so in whl for kunlun (#29947)

* [Kunlun] bug fix of PR2: Support MultiDevicePass and BKCL in parallel executor  (#29961)
Co-authored-by: NQingshuChen <qingshu.chen714@gmail.com>

The PR: https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/24651 seems causes new random failure of unit test test_parallel_executor_seresnext_base_cpu. The reason is that smaller batch size causes random optimization of neural network. I distinguished cpu/gpu batch size to fix the unittest.

* increase test_parallel_executor_seresnext time limit
test=develop

* split test_parallel_executor_seresnext
test=develop

* temporally disable reduce_and_allreduce test because of the random failure.
test=develop

* split gpu and cpu
test=develop