Add use_cinn flag and use it to control whether we run PaddlePaddle using CINN.

Also add:

Replace PaddlePaddle graph with a CINN graph in a pass
PE Method to feed data and run the graph by CINN

* fc_elementwise_layer_fuse_pass

* fc_ele_layernorm_pass

* fc_elementwise_layernorm_pass

* fc_elementwise_layernorm_pass_amend

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* Add fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse pass and unittest.

* Add fused_fc_elementwise_layernorm op and its GPU kernel.
test=develop

* Apply fc_elementwise_layernorm_fuse_pass to GPU inference.

* Add the setting of attrs in the definition of binary_op.
test=develop

* Add comment.

* Implement the unittest.
test=develop

* Change the unittest name of layer_norm.
test=develop

* modify the interface of Pass::Allay
test=develop

* Polish code
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

* fix Pass::Apply interface
test=develop

* Fix Travis CI
test=develop

test=develop

* Support Sync Batch Norm.
* Note, do not enable it in one device.

Usage:

build_strategy = fluid.BuildStrategy()
build_strategy.sync_batch_norm = True
binary = fluid.compiler.CompiledProgram(tp).with_data_parallel(
        loss_name=loss_mean.name,
        build_strategy=build_strategy)

test=develop

* add MKL-DNN placement pass

This patch also refactors conv+bn (includes changes from PR
https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/13926)
updated to use the mkldnn-placement-pass.

test=develop

* remove redundant pass list

* add comment on the default first pass

* fix test for conv+relu mkldnn fuse

fix a few other things

* dist transpiler add control dependency var between send and recv

* fix async deps

* follow comments and refine

* fix deps connect for rpc ops

* make enforce a target and dependent on nccl when gpu is enabled

* add some more dependency

ISSUE=4586495

git-svn-id: https://svn.baidu.com/idl/trunk/paddle@1408 1ad973e4-5ce8-4261-8a94-b56d1f490c56