* bugfix for warpctc

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix WARPCTC_WITH_HIP invalid

* Add logs to find out why can not dlopen libwarpctc.so

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix unit test test_warpctc_op

* Optime failed log for dlopen

* Optime failed log for dlopen

* Delete extra changes

* fix warpctc commit id

* fix warpctc commit id

* Add is_compiled_with_rocm for test_warpctc_op

* fix warpctc commit id

* Cancel optimize dlopen failed reason, move to next pr, due to it makes windows ci failed

* Cancel optimize dlopen failed reason, move to next pr, due to it makes windows ci failed

* Cancel optimize dlopen failed reason, move to next pr, due to it makes windows ci failed

* fix code style problems

Co-authored-by: Nronnywang <524019753@qq.com>

* add relu forward kernel and backward kernel

* replace mask vector to raw ptr

* launch nms on context stream

* remove redundant mask declaration

* add dict/str/list supprot for DataLoader. test=develop

* fix engine key in trt int8 calibration

* fix unit test

* add softmax_switch for softmax_with_cross_entropy_op, test=develop

* delete using EigenMatrix in softmax_with_cross_entropy_op.h, test=develop

* add REGISTER_OP_VERSION for softmax_switch attr of softmax_with_cross_entropy_op, test=develop

* remove the send/recv of tensor size, but users have to specify the shape of the received var explicitly.

* bugfix for test_cholesky_op

* bugfix for test_compare_op

* bugfix for lookup_table_op

* bugfix for affine_channel_op

* - introduced fix onednn 2.2 version

* - compilation fix

[Kunlun]Multi xpu dygraph performance optimization , add distributed.spawn support for multi xpu and some bug-fixes (#31130)