* [CppExtension Cuda] Add cuda unit test for CppExtension

* update extra_compile_args for CUDAExtension

* add debug info

* Add patch to fix CUDA12 compile error

* patch for all env

* add windows judgement

* Try to fix setup function not found error

* fix mix_relu_and_extension include file

* fix setup compile error

* remove useless debug comments

* add sleep, debug CI-build

* add space to disable cmake cache

* remove debug info

* add space to pass CI-build

* to support cuda12, pybind need to upgrade to v2.10.0

* add DEPS of pybind in test_custom_plugin_creater.cc

* only change the tag

* please let CI pass

* try pybind v2.10/3

* modify the include header in test

* code check

* make third_party's cmake get source code directly 2

* modify according to zhouwei's comment

* eager needs mkldnn to compile

* 添加rocm平台支持代码

* 修改一些问题

* 修改一些歧义并添加备注

* 修改代码格式

* 解决冲突后的代码修改

* 修改operators.cmake

* 修改格式

* 修正错误

* 统一接口

* 修改日期

* update version pybind to v2.4.3, test=develop

* update unittests, test=develop

tweak the interface of cache_third_party function - expose the SOURCE_DIR for each external library (#21899)

test=develop

test=develop

* Expose paddle.framework by pybind11

* Export paddle.framework.{Scope, Variable} to paddle.v2.framework.core.
* See python/paddle/v2/framework/tests/test_scope.py for Python usage
* See paddle/pybind/pybind.cc for C++ bind code.

* add copyright