remove the AdamOptimizer、SGDOptimizer、MomentumOptimizer、ModelAverage、LookaheadOptimizer、FtrlOptimizer、DecayedAdagradOptimizer、DpsgdOptimizer in fluid and relocate the ExponentialMovingAverage、PipelineOptimizer、GradientMergeOptimizer and change optimizer base for LarsMomentumOptimizer and RecomputeOptimizer (#55970)

* change the optimizer base for SGDOptimizer

* change the optimizer base for SGDOptimizer

* replace the SGDOptimizer with SGD

* fix bug of sgd

* change the optimizer base for MomentumOptimizer

* fix the remaining tests

* remove the Momentum in fluid/optimizer.py

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* Update test_resnet_cinn.py

* Update test_resnet_prim_cinn.py

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* remove the ModelAverage in fluid

* remove the LookaheadOptimizer in fluid

* fix bug

* remove AdamOptimizer in fluid

* Update test_image_classification_fp16.py

* fix bug

* relocate the ExponentialMovingAverage in fluid

* restore the static api

* remove the FtrlOptimizer in fluid

* remove the DecayedAdagradOptimizer in fluid

* remove the DpsgdOptimizer in fluid

* fix bug

* fix codestyle

* fix bug

* fix bug

* relocate the PipelineOptimizer

* relocate the GradientMergeOptimizer

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix doc

* Update __init__.py

* Update test_fleet_qat_meta_optimizer.py

* change optimizer base for LarsMomentumOptimizer

* fix bug

* fix conflict

* fix code-style

* fix sample codes

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix cinn bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* Update qat_optimizer.py

* Update __init__.py

* fix bug

* change optimizer base for RecomputeOptimizer

* fix bug

* fix bug

* Update test_imperative_optimizer_v2.py

* mv all unittests test

* fix error

* fix error

* fix

* fix

* del unittests

* fix paddle_build.sh

* fix

* fix test

* fix add test

* fix

* fix

* fix

* merge develop

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* merge develop

* fix test_async_read_write

* fix test_async_read_write

* merge develop

* fix

* fix import legacy_test

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix bug

* fix

* fix coverage test bug

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix code sstyle

* fix code

* fix code

* fix

* fix

* fix

* del test_sequence_enumerate_op.py

* fix

* relocate regularizer.py

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* relocate the import

* replace _regularization_coeff with coeff

* remove the L1DecayRegularizer and L2DecayRegularizer

* remove fluid.data

* fix typro

* fix somme unitest error

* fix conflicts

* fix sample code error

* fxi sample coder error

* fxi sample code error

* fxi sample code error

* fix xpu test error

* fix xpu test error

* Delete ps_pb2.py

* fix test error

* fix typro

* fix sample code error

* fix comments

* fix test norm op data

* fix sample code error

* fix conflicts

* add inner function _elementwise_op_with_axis

* fix transformer_model

* polish API code

* remove elementwise_div/mul api

* delete API in __all__

* delete elementwise_mul completely

* polish elementwise_mul call

* polish internal api

* resolve conflict, fix rnn.py

* use non-inplace call

* delete elementwise_mul api test

* delete elementwise_mul api test

* clean elementwise_add/sub

* restore _elementwise_op_in_dygraph in nn.py

* add fuse act add grad pass

* polish code

* refine code

* add test

* refine code

* isort all files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* revert conflicting files

* update config

* re-blacken python code

* temporarily disable date and diff_py_file

* skip a format

1. test_parallel_executor_seresnext_base_gpu failed on 2 P100 GPUs with `470.82` driver.
```
======================================================================
FAIL: test_seresnext_with_learning_rate_decay (test_parallel_executor_seresnext_base_gpu.TestResnetGPU)
----------------------------------------------------------------------
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/opt/paddle/paddle/build/python/paddle/fluid/tests/unittests/test_parallel_executor_seresnext_base_gpu.py", line 32, in test_seresnext_with_learning_rate_decay
    self._compare_result_with_origin_model(
  File "/opt/paddle/paddle/build/python/paddle/fluid/tests/unittests/seresnext_test_base.py", line 56, in _compare_result_with_origin_model
    self.assertAlmostEquals(
AssertionError: 6.8825445 != 6.882531 within 1e-05 delta (1.335144e-05 difference)
----------------------------------------------------------------------
```
2. To be more accuracte on evaluating loss convergence, we proposed to apply IOU as metric, instead of comparing first and last loss values.
3. As offline discussion, we also evaluated convergence on P100 and A100 in 1000 interations to make sure this UT have the same convergence property on both devices. The curves are showed below.
![A100-Single, P100-Single and Diff (1)](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/13541238/175461920-25df6101-6dd8-4387-862c-d1c8e9299c57.png)

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

reduce the  occupied size  of memory for the fused pattern of elementwise_add Op and activation Op(relu Op for example) (#29885)

* deprecate python memory optimize, test=develop

* remove memory_optimize in unittests, test=develop

* add unittests to deprecated interfaces, test=develop

* add unit test for fuse_opt_ops
test=develop

* add ir memory optimize test case for IfElse op, test=develop

* fix some unitttest failure by force using the python memory_optimize, test=develop

* tweak comments, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* add ir memory optimize test case for IfElse op, test=develop

* fix some unitttest failure by force using the python memory_optimize, test=develop

* tweak comments, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* fix unittest, test=develop

* Add Preface

* Add demo code

* Save file

* Refine code

* seems can work

* use elementwise strategy

* Use ElementwiseComputeEx

* Add comments

* extract functions from operator

* Refine code

* Follow comment

* code refine

* add op_fuse  pass

* add backward

* code refine

* use TopologySortOperations

* follow comments

* refine IsFusible

* code enhance

* fix op_fusion_pass

* refine code

* refine fuse_elemwise_act_op

* adjust the input and output

* refine logic

* add intermediate_edge

* disable inplace

* follow comments

* refine logic

* follow comments

* Remove the removable IntermediateOut

* change strategy

* code refine

* enable fuse backward

* code refine

* code refine

* rename unit test

* follow comments