[cherry-pick] faster build by reduce by-product, reduce linking library and fix compile warning of std=c++11(#22230)

[cherry-pick] #22191
- 添加了fluid-lite子图方式运行resnet的单测
- 修改了依赖Lite的git commit id

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* add TRT support for instance_norm op

* add gelu plugin

* align trt bert with gpu

* add support for fused fc with relu,

* add unittest for bert trt

* fix multi-thread error of fc_gru_fuse_pass.cc, test=develop

* export FLAGS and GLOG symbols, test=develop

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* Disable memory opt pass when DNNL is on

* Refine comment above mem optimization pass enablement

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* rename paddle throw error macro, test=develop

* fix new error use case, test=develop

* Add reshape int8 op

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* Change test to CPUPlace

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* Correct tests

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* MKLDNN v1.0 rebase to Paddle 1.6
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* Add hacky paddle::string::to_string() implementation

* vectorize<int64-t>() -> vectorize() cleanup
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* PADDLE_ENFORCE and void_cast fixes
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* Rebase changes
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* Cosmetics
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* Delete MKL from mkldnn.cmake
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* CMake debug commands
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* Delete MKLDNN_VERBOSE and rebase fixes
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* Rebase fixes
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* Temporarily disable int8 resnet101 vgg16 and vgg19 tests
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to python setup
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* Add libmkldnn.so.1 to inference_lib cmake after rebase
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* Post rebase fixes + FC int8 changes
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* Fix LRN NHWC
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* Fix NHWC conv3d
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* Windows build fix + next conv3d fix
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* Fix conv2d on AVX2 machines
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* ZeroCopyTensor::mutable_data in the right device, test=develop

* add unittest for zerocopy, test=develop

* update benchmark for int8v2, QAT1, QAT2 accuracy and performance
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* change according to reviews
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* improve some descriptions and some models
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* update models benchmark data
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* update int8v2 and qat2 performance
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* make DisableGlogInfo able to mute all logs in inference. 

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* add ernie-large test
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* add ernie large c++ inference test
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* fix -Wno-error=sign-compare warning in gcc8

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* fix warning in distributed codes

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* fix transpose conv,test=develop

* fix comments
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* add ut for comparing FP32 and QAT INT8

* add save qat transformed model python script
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* updated

* added missing file

* add "with_label"
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* performance benchmark as unit test
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* change names of unnecessary thing

* Change CMakeList.txt for model downloading and UT
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* change names of functions and params for more readable code
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* Change PADDLE_ENFORCE messages
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* fix indent problems
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* indent problems
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* Implement Int8 FC

* Integrate FC into INT8v2

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* int8 FC: transpose weights before computing scales

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* Add support for activation_type string in FC

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* Disable MKL-DNN's FC in VGG16 and 19

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* Disable FC quantization when mkldnn FC is disabled

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* Solve PADDLE_ENFORCES in FC int8

* Fix Paddle enforces and remove const cast

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* Fix style changes

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* Fix quantizer_tester test and add fc quantization

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* Fix FC test fail on CUDA

* Remove unnecessary log from quantize placement pass

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* Add Thread ID to FC hash key

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* Add comments to MKL-DNN FC Kernel

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* Refactor quantizer

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* Fix linter issues

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* Fix crash in slim googlenet

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* Fix PADDLE_ENFORCE messages

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* Add fc padding to solve mkl performance
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* fix gpu pass and error information
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* fix fc_fuse_pass_test
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* fix error information
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* fix error information
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* fix name and add fc op padding test
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* fix attributes
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* optimize fc padding
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* fix test
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* fix the CAPI ZeroCopy shape error and reconstruct the output obtain

* use an anonymous namespace to cover the functor

* fix unit tests because of the output of typeid(T).name() is different from linux and windows, test=develop

added splitter "__" between weight name and suffix number to avoid conflicts.

* refine trt int8 for dynamic range set
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* refine trt int8
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* solve cmake fails on inference_download_and_uncompress
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* solve cmake fails on inference_download_and_uncompress
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* Add relative error measure when value > 1
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* Move code to CheckError function
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