[Inference Tensorrt] Add attr for trt engine and handle the input seq problem for ernie var len. (#33575)

fix ut:trt_resnext_test, trt_quant_int8_yolov3_r50_test, test_trt_dynamic_shape_ernie, test_trt_dynamic_shape_ernie_fp16_ser_deser, trt_cascade_rcnn_test (#29977)

* remove -DSUPPORTS_CUDA_FP16 in cuda.cmake

* comile with cuda9

* add some unittest

* notest;test=coverage

* add unittest for trt plugin swish && split

* update ernie unittest

* fix some error message

* remove repeated judgement of CUDA version in mbEltwiseLayerNormOpConverter

* fix comile errror when CUDA_ARCH_NAME < Pascal"

* fix comile error

* update unittest timeout

* compile with cuda9

* update error msg

* fix code style

* add some comments

* add define IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16

* rename IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16 to CUDA_ARCH_FP16_SUPPORTED

* fp16 result ok

* change -DWITH_NVINFER_PLUGIN toconfig.EnableTensorRtOSS

* auto detect special slice op converter for ernie with trt oss

* ernie oss only support fp16

* fix special_slice_plugin serialize bug

* matmul in tensorrt ok

* ernie unittest ok

* add matmul tensorrt unittest

* remove demo code

* add stack_op to CMakeLists

* add dim=3 support for scale op

* add trt stack op, test=develop

* remove debug message

* add stack plugin serialize

* remove slice, scale op, will add later

* enhence error message

* revise trt ernie test to conver the stack op CI testi, test=develop

* add stack op serialization

* fix test shape after adding stack op

* remove slice op, will add after implementing serialization

* roll back to min_graph=5 to avoid using slice op

* fix scale op output layer

* implement stack op createPlugin

* use workspace and move the defination to .cu

* move stack plugin creator definition to .cu, test=develop

* develop dynamic shape serilization

* add test param for gelu

* fix bugs

* delete redundant comments

* debug

* fix conflict. test=develop

* fix bug. test=develop

* add trt dynamic shape serialized support

* fix ernie serialized bug
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* fix codestyle
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* fix bug
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* fix bug.test=develop

* modify cmakelist test=develop

* fix bug
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* fix error message.  test=develop

* fix trt register plugin based on pr#25003

* add trt dynload

* fix deserialization bug of not finding plugin registration

* refine code style

* recover engine key in tensorrt_subgraph_pass

* for ci coverage

* add unittest for deserialization
Co-authored-by: Nhaozech <chenhaoze94@gmail.com>

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* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
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* fix dynamic shape test ut
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* fix comments.
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* fix comments
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* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
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* can run dynamic shape ernie
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* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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