[Eager, Performance optimization] reduce_all interface move reduce_all flag from python to C++ (#45744)

* [Eager, Performance optimization] move reduce_all flag from python to c++

* polish reduce_all

* fix ci error

* fix errors

* [Eager, Performance optimization] reduce_max / min polish

* polish reduce_max / min

* update min/max kernel reduce_all logic

* fix a mistake

* fix ci errors

* fix errors

* [Phi] fix phi compile option for jetson

* Update phi.cmake

* set use_cudnn=true for conv2d

* clear opmaker of matmul_v2

* fix bug of set_attr

* add extra attr checker in infer_shape

* add silu converter

* fix grad error of grounorm op when cuda version==11.7

* remove int8 fallback

* [Dy2Stat]Filter UserWarings while @to_static

* only filter DeprecationWarning

* fix unittest

* gaussian random

* mkldnn to onednn renaming

* fix merge conflicts

* remove fluid code

* onednn renaming

* Move classes from mkldnn_reuse.h to onednn_reuse.h

* Move more functions from mkldnn_helper.h to onednn_helpper.h

* Change MKLDNN to OneDNN in VLOG message
Co-authored-by: NSilv3S <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* support onnx format quantized model

* update code

* add test

* add test

* fix

* fix test

* fix cmake

* update code

* change scale file path to calibration file path

* update code

* update code

* fix build bug

* fix build bugs

* fix

* fix

* fix compile error in gcc540

* fix doc of max_pool_2d

* dbg

* fix format

* remove extra attr of opmaker

* remove extra attr of gru

* revert scale

* fix bug of create_op

* add extra attr checker in infer_shape

* fix gelu

* [OpAttr]Fix complation error of XPU from Pool2dGradKernel

* test=kunlun

* fix bug in PostTrainingProgram for certain cases

* fix scale bug

* [CustomDevice] unittests tracking the fixed version plugin

* update

* [Eager] fix pool2d interface under eager mode

* add use_gpudnn for pool2d

* fix pool2d yaml conflicts

* fix pool2d yaml

* migrate memcpy to phi

* fix typo error

* fix typo error

* fix  bug and testcase

* fix typo, uniform_random_kernel.cc header

* fix Alloc pinned bug

* change GPUContext::GetPinnedPlace

* add GetPinnedPlace function

* add GetPinnedPlace function

* restore default throw error

* fix Unimplemented error

* skip StandaloneExecutor testcase

* delete memcpy_sig

* [Eager, Performance optimization] fix pool3d under eager mode

* polish code

* add config param for enable_dlnne and support calibration mode
* remove useless file
* refine code and add annotation
* refine code of Warnning tips

* move one_hot_v2, p_norm, p_norm_grad to phi

* move one_hot_v2, p_norm, p_norm_grad to phi

test=kunlun

* remove unused header file

* remove unused header file

test=kunlun