* decouple memory copy

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci compile bugs

* fix rocm compile

* fix ci bugs

* decouple_memory

* perfect memory utils

* fix ci bugs

* fix inference bugs

* fix custom test bugs

* fix converage bugs

* modify code according comment

* modify namespace

* deal with compile bugs

* Replace mutable_data with DeviceContext.Alloc in phi kernels

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors, test=kunlun

* Fix CI errors, test=kunlun

* Handle rnn_functor

* Update approvals

* refine cmake of framework

* add deps for dense tensor

* fix deps

* remove alloc(ctx)

* add depends on mkldnn

resort .cu headers, set clang-format not sort include block and consider .cu as main source file (#43633)

* add yolo box kernel; test=develop

* fix comile error; test=develop