功能：本PR的目标是提高attention模块的计算性能。
为了减少框架层对op的调度开销，本PR通过在C++层手动实现attention模块，对外提供attention 大op；
为了减少防存开销，本PR采取了两种优化方法：
（1）在q,k,v计算时通过共享输入X，将该处的gemm，transpose和bias add从三次调用减少为一次；
（2）使用kernel融合优化技术，在不同cuda kernel之间通过寄存器传输数据；

This PR adds error exception in fused transformer python interface.
The function body are not implemented (will be implemented later).
Following zhiqiu's comment in previous PR-35206 (merged already), it is better to raise an exception instead of using "pass".

This PR adds fused transformer python related files. It defines interface of fused transformer.

Fused transformer implements an optimized version of transformer layer (in python/paddle/nn/layer/transformer.py). In this PR, four layers (functions) are defined:
(1) FusedMultiHeadAttention: multi-head attention layer
(2) FusedFeedForward: feed forward layer
(3) FusedTransformerEncoderLayer: transformer encoder layer
(4) FusedTransformer: transformer layer