* 裁剪transformer模型trt支持；修复tensorRT不支持DeletePass的bug (#28517)

* skip_layernorm_op done

* add unittest

* slice op convertor support trt < 6

* skip_layernorm only work in ernie

* fix unittest

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* fix multhead matmul's instable
test=develop

* fix multihead matmul bug
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* fix converage problem
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* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* 1. optim multihead matmul: fuse three fc to multihtead matmul

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* fix conflict
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* fix comments
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* Add multihead fuse pass for ernie opt

* Refine softmax

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* Refine cuda kernel

* Refine cuda version

* Refine cmake

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* refine header file

* refine test case and pass
* refine comments