* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* add sync communicator and implement

* fix -Wno-error=sign-compare warning in gcc8

test=develop

* fix warning in distributed codes

test=develop

* remove -Wno-error=sign-compare, make warning as error

test=develop test=document_fix

* fix exist compile warning

test=develop

* update pserver decay blocks

* update distributed notify handler

* test=develop, communicator_is_sgd_optimizer flags

* refector geo sgd & communicator