Enable to record whether the conv algo is got by exhaustive search to fix autotune cache bug. (#47065)

* remove needless using tensor

* remove needless using tensor

* resolve conflict

* replace tensor using

* fix format error

* revert needless changing

* fix rocm and npu compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* resolve conflict

* optimizer conv alog speed

* code polish

* remove useless code

* fix compile error

* fix cpu compile error

* not use cudnn alog t

* add search cache max number

* polish code

* fix cache test bug

* add groups data format to conv args

* fix cache test bug

* fix cudnn_deterministic bug

* fix test switch auto tune bug

* fix test swith autotune bug;

* fix conv cache bug

* fix cache test error

* fix cache test bug

* fix windows mac compile error

* fix workspace search error

* update cudnn cache

* fix cache test bug; test=develop

* fix autotune swith test error

* polish code

* oplish code

* change cudnn helper for auto-tune

* Add FLAGS_use_autotune to set the global status of autotune and change the order of choosing algorithm.

* Fix the bug in calculating and printing current step cache hit rate.

* Improve the autotune cache and fix unittest.

* Change the key from AlgorithmType to int64_t.

* Fix unittest for cpu-only env.

* change ChooseAlgoByWorkspace for heuristic mode
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

* Using the maximum workspace_size of all alogirhms to limit the workspace size in exhaustive search mode.

* Use the system cudaMalloc and cudaFree to allocate workspace during searching.

* Enable switch of two kind of workspace setting methods.
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>