* fix large scale KV 
* fix single training using async ssa graph

Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server (API add `fluid.contrib.layers.sparse_embedding` only) (#22957)

* Integrated Trainer of Parameter Server

* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* Support LoDTEnsorArray in fetch op

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* Support LoDTensorArray in fetch

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* correct reader device index, test=develop

* fix async executor scope var initialization, test=develop

* update ScopeBufferedSSAGraphExecutor&AsyncSSAGraphExecutor&ThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&FastThreadedSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelSSAGraphExecutor&ParallelExecutor for fetching unmerged results.

* add the unit test for fetch_unmerged.

* update ut for multi-card and multi-cpu.

* add the error message and the user suggestion in FetchOpHandle. test=develop

* add sync communicator and implement

* add thread barrier for the compiled program

* add half_async in the communicator
* fix DistributedStrategy

* update pserver decay blocks

* update distributed notify handler

* add a base class for the Communicator
* add AsyncCommunicator Impl for async distributed training

* feature/buffer_shared_inplace, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* fix elementwise_add op cpu inplace and sum inplace bug, test=develop

* add unittest and debug log, test=develop

* fix parallel_executor scope bug, polish code, test=develop

* fix sum op, activation op, single_in_place_inference bug, test=develop

* remove kLocalExecScopeName, test=develop

* fix unittest,test=develop

* fix out_var first version bug, test=develop

* follow comments,test=develop

* add is_runnning in communicator, test=develop

Async exe support communicator

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