* force sync batch norm grad sequential

* rm flags_retain grad in pybind

* retain grads for xpu test

* set retain grad for xpu

* rm flag

* lint

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Co-authored-by: Nwanghuancoder <wanghuan29@baidu.com>

* add extra attr property set

* add type_info for all context

* add onednn context to all context

* fix context compile error

* simplify conv kernel args

* pass runtime attr into dev_ctx

* fix marco error

* clear conv_grad_kernel extra args

* merge conv_grad_grad into conv_grad

* clear conv2d_grad_grad extra attrs

* clear yaml and eager extra attr

* fix conv1d error

* change to thread local

* fix npu compile failed

* try to fix windows compile failed

* add conv2d onednn phi kernel

* fix ci bugs (#36)

* fix compile bugs (#38)

* fix extra input transform bug (#39)

* support dynamic created attr (#40)

* reset extra info gen code

* rm conv_grad_grad kernel

* reimpl pass attr adapting

* add int attr support

* remove vector inputnames creating

* fix map at error

* Update paddle/phi/kernels/onednn/conv_grad_kernel.cc
Co-authored-by: NSławomir Siwek <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* remove useless extra attrs

* replace mkldnn_engine by onednn_engine
Co-authored-by: NYuanRisheng <yuanrisheng@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NSławomir Siwek <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* make eager log readable

* fix compile error

* recover test

* invoke ci again

* Compilation optimization

* fix deriv with inplace

* fix double grad bugs

* remove additional file

* fix compat dygraph mode

* fix yaml remove additional yaml

* fix slice double grad error and auto code gen logic error for higher order differentiate

* fix fix_higher_order_deriv

* remove additional include

* fix fix_higher_order_deriv