cherry-pick #53430

新增enable_tensor_checker, disable_tensor_checker API (#52936)

* Unify the static amp codes of fp16 and bf16.

* Polish apis and add unittest.

* Add operator stats collecting tools for program.

* Add the check of number of bloat16 operators in unittest.

* Add warning for operator not supported for amp.

* Add testing of BF16 O1 and O2.

* [AMP] Add python API for collecting operator stats.

* Fix import and polish codes.

* Add more unittest.

* Add doc for the new APIs.