* remove using lodtensor part2

* resolve code format error

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* replace added frameworrk tensor

* remove using lodtensor part1

* polish history code format

* remove needless using tensor

* remove needless using tensor

* resolve conflict

* replace tensor using

* fix format error

* revert needless changing

* fix rocm and npu compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix mkldnn format error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* fix cinn compile error

* resolve conflict

* make tensor_util contains no cuda code

* refine isfinite

* revert ut

* move isfinite function to its op

* fix test

* fix compile

* std::isnan is not defined for int type on windows

* fix windows compile

* fix fp16

* fix rocm compile

* revert gradient node

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* [PSLIB] Add Metrics Module, Support User-defined Add Metric

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI Coverage

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI Coverage

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI Coverage

* [PSLIB] Modify According to CI Coverage

* modify role_maker

* update CMakeLists.txt

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Removed Class SelectedRows in Fluid, changed include/cmake relationship, use pten::SelectedRows in Fluid

* Remove rw_lock.h,rw_lock_test.cc in fluid

* Use pten::RWLock and pten::AutoRDLock, fix CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Use pten::SelectedRows

* Fix to pass NPU CI

* Use pten::SelectedRows, to pass NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI

* To fix NPU CI again

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Merge Tensor into DenseTensor

* Fixed namespace issues,test=allcases

* Fixed merge issues

* Fixed inference issues

* Fixed NPU test issues

* Fixed merge issues

* Merged LoDTensor with Tensor,test=allcases

* Patched python level LoDTensor

* Fixed example code failure

* Polished function names, removed duplicated forward declarations

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* add multitask

* add multitask, test=develop

* fix code style, test=develop

* add partail push dense, test=develop

* fix has_kay in py3, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

* add heter ps mode

* code style
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* add with_pslib
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* unitest
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* test monitor
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* prepare trainer
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* code style
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* polish framework error meg part2

* polish details

* test=develop, add try_catch for debug

* Refactor code for dump_field & dump_param: abstracting the common function in base class.
* Support dump randomly & random with lineid
* Support specify the random interval, which avoids printing too much logs.

* update

* update test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update compile set test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update compile setting test=develop

* update run demo test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update format test=develop

* update style test=develop

* update style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* change style test=develop

* add dataset unittest test=develop

* update test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* udpate style for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* update for record test=develop

* fix format test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* update test=develop

* fix copy table bug of lost some feasign
* test=develop

* fix compiled error of butil when with_pslib=on and with_testing=on
* test=develop

* remove -Wno-error=sign-compare, make warning as error

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* fix exist compile warning

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* general table

* add sparse table
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* no cvm
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* add no_cvm
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* add note
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* code style
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* add key of optimizer
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* copy some feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all feasigns and corresponding embeddings from one sparse table to another
* copy all dense params from one table to another
* copy some local vars to other local vars

* support dump param to afs
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* code style
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* code style
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* dump param
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* dump param
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* dump param
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* dump param
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* no longer need to define all embedding layers (no one less) of all slots in each program. make trainer_param repeated in ps.proto.
* add find_distributed_lookup_table_grads instead of hard code GRAD
* support embedding stop gradient. push sparse has error before fix this.* 
* fix fill sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding. each slot's embedding in a sparse table should be used in all training programs before fix this.
* fix pull sparse, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* fix collect feasign label info, skip slots which do not have embedding.
* support when there are multi sparse tables in one or multi training programs, each program can pull/push its own related sparse tables instead of all sparse tables.
* test=develop

* add check nan / inf in downpour worker during training
* test=develop

* rm return in vfork

* rm return in vfork
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* add thread scope stat accurate metrics test=develop

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix style test=develop

* fix conflict

* fix style

* fix style test=develop

* fix error test=develop

* fix error test=develop

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* dump slot

* test

* proto

* code style

* code style

* code style

* style

* add delete after unseen days

* add unseen days

* code style

* conflict solve
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* add clear model

* code style
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* code style
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* support debug tensor of each ins
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* support debug tensor of each ins
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* learning rate

* code style

* code style

* code style

* code style

* code style

* code style

* code style

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* code style
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* code style
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* unitest

* style

* style

* multi phase

* add channel

* code style

* style

* style

* unitest

* style

* define

* define
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* style
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* rm define
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* linux

* linux
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* style
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* output format
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* windows ci
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adjust ins weight according to nid slot , user can specify adjust_ins_weight in strategy

Fix FleetWrapper:
1. fix shrink dense: just scale show
2. add datanorm scale: divide datanorm's gradient by batch_size

The change includes 2 things:

1. save delta model and shrink table are control by the same parameter before, now add delete_after_unseen_days to control shrink table.
2. value in sparse table has no slot before, now add slot in sparse table, and add DownpureCtrAccessor to support the new meta.
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（1）support patch data （merge slots of instances of same line id, modify dense layer which
changes its size）
（2）add fleet load_one_table interface, support load from paddle model and load from pslib model
（3）fix push sparse bug which cause push sparse cost more time（about 10% in my testcase）
（4）when some slots are not in one of your network (join/update, etc.)，data feed、collect label info、push/pull sparse will skip these slots， instead of throw error.
（5）add more debug info in TrainFilesWithProfiler

* add save/load model, shrink table, cvm, config file & fix pull dense bug
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* fix global shuffle bug, fix pull dense bug, fix release memeory bug, fix shrink error
add client flush, add get data size
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* fix global shuffle bug
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* fix global shuffle bug
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* fix code style
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* fix code style & modify pslib cmake
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* fix error of _role_maker
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* fix code style
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* fix code style
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* fix code style
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* fix code style
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* fix code style
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* fix windows compile error of fleet
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* fix global shuffle bug

* add comment
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* update pslib.cmake
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* fix fill sparse bug
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* fix push sparse bug
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* fix train_from_dataset and infer_from_dataset example

* add inductive dim for data_reader, example: shape=[-1, 1], then -1 will be inducted through run-time reading of number of elements

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