* disable copying of datatype when sharing buffer between two tensors.
* fix for mkldnn operator kernels (elementwise_add, sum, softplus, softmax, scale, activation), mannually set the data type when reusing memory by ShareBufferWith.

* added softplus + activation fuse plass

* minor change

* implemented reviewer suggestion

* minor fix

* minor fix

* added scale_out parameter

* minor fix

* fix for iScan CI

* conditionally disabled logs

* refactored pass builder

* added softplus

* refactored softplus op

* deleted unnecessary file

* added missing file

* added formatting

* disabled tests if GPU is used

* added reviewer suggestion

* unified softplus kernel