Support diff dataset tensor place in single process dataloader

cherry-pick of #33470

 fuse L2Decay and momentum when param.regularizer is set

cherry-pick #32845

* add random state generate in DataLoader worker. test=develop

* fix license and __all__. test=develop

* fix unittest. test=develop

* update, test=develop

* fix conv2d_transpose trt bugs (#33242)

* fix jetson arch when compiling with single arch (#33269)

* Fix two english api documents, transpose and strided_slice

* OP:strided_slice_op supports bool type inputs

* fix syncbn

* fix compare op in for in the cuda device

* fix the paddle compare op for the broadcast

* fix spawn default nprocs get error

* polish error message

* [HybridParallel]Fix pipeline in dygraph (#33007)

* fix pipeline

* fix mp pp dp

* fix utest of hybrid parallel

* add utest for tuple

* fix utest (#33108)

* Support convert sublayers in Sequential Container

* remove paddle.jit.set_code_level

* fix precision of mp

* fix bug of seed

* fix dp

* print group

Change Paddle CI-Cverage Python3.8 Cherry-pick 32515

* [Dy2Static]Add param_guard in ParameterList to support @to_static

* [Dy2Static] Refactor param_guard logic of @to_static (#32867)

* Add param_guard in ParameterList to support @to_static

* Refactor param_guard of @to_static

* fix unittest failed

* add more unittest

* [Custom Op]Remove PADDLE_WITH_MKLDNN in custom_op  (#32903)

* [Dy2Stat]BugFix StaticAanlysis with gast.Subscript (#32969)

* BugFix StaticAanlysis with gast.Subscript

* remove codes

    test_paddle_save_load 单测随机挂：使用np.ndarray生成随机数组，可能生成nan，造成做对比时结果不匹配（nan != nan）。改为np.random.randn生成随机数组。

    test_paddle_save_load_binary随机挂: 如果一个字符串不能解析为Program，windows上会有超时风险。解决方法：不在windows平台不加载'不能解析为Program的字符串'。

原始PR:#32949

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

fix error log for reducer

fix doc

fix bug of utest

fix spawn

fix converage

 [CHERRY-PICK2.1]Remove paddle_custom_op dynamic libraries, and link to FLUID_CORE on windows (#32583) (#32769)

* Remove paddle_custom_op dynamic libraries, change link to FLUID_CORE on windows, and check copy_to

* fix CI

* Add casting initializers for bf16 training

* Changes after review

* Correct test and add comment
Co-authored-by: Njoanna.wozna.intel <joanna.wozna@intel.com>

* Add deprecated warning info.

* Add unittest for deprecated decorator.

* Add warning info for tensor.grad

* clear 'BasicEngine' when an exception occurs in the backward. (#32546)

* clear 'BasicEngine' when an exception occurs in the backward.

* deal with conflict.

* deal with conflict.

* forward return any type. (#32661)

cherry-pick:change softmax_with_cross_entropy_op's parameter name from softmax_switch to use_softmax (#32750)

* change parameter name from softmax_switch to use_softmax, test=develop

* cherry-pick:change parameter name from softmax_switch to use_softmax, test=develop

cherry-pick #32561

Dy2stat failed when user writes return paddle.to_tensor(xxx), the reason is that visit_Expr doesn't work when the Expr is in return. Some other statements may trigger same bug. To fix it, we re-wrote a transformer to transform paddle.to_tensor to paddle.assign for all Call nodes.

* add relu6_ hardsigmoid_ leaky_relu_ Inplace APIs

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy_ Inplace API

* add clip_ scale_ add_ subtract_ Inplace APIs

* add wlist

* fix parameter of scale api

* add add_n_ Inplace API and remove log_ Inplace API

* fix elementwise_add_ and elementwise_sub_ broadcast problem

* elementwise inplace api give error message before run the op

* use broadcast_shape in elementwise inplace op

* add 8 inplace apis that is auto generated

* add unittest for all inplace apis

* add decorator for inplace apis in static mode

* fix windows blas fail of exp inplace api, change array_equal to allclose

* add flatten inplace api

* add flatten unittest

* fix flatten unittest

* add decorator

* fix grad.numpy in test_pylayer_op

* unsupport softmax_with_cross_entropy_

* add test_inplace_softmax_with_cross_entropy to static_mode_white_list

* delete __all__ in inplace_utils

* delete activation inplace function and add Tensor.inplace_func

* change paddle.inplace_ to Tensor.inplace_

* fix little problem

* add paddle in inplace_utils

* Add bf16 uniform random initializer

* Remove duplicated section

* Change UT to CPU place only

* Put detail functions into anonymous namespace

This is cherry-pick of #32281

* add fake interface for hook in static mode

* add unittests

* fix failed unittests

* jit.save/load support function.

* delete unnittest test_jit_load_model_incomplete.

* edit code according to CI

* Modify the documentation.

* add note to doc.

* update 2.0 public api in nn

* replace Chinese character cause error in ci;synchronization with pr:#32588 to avoid 'ascii' codec in python2

* numbers used in paddle.nn.functional.norm but not imported