Migrate scale and scatter to phi, and modify the code style for roi_align_kernel. test=kunlun (#45938)

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* open header for custom kernel

* add core utils

* tidy core code

* tify header

* tidy include

* tidy namespace

* resolve conflit

* fix unittest and coverage

* remove platform using

* resolve conflict

* resolve conflict

* fix digamma namespace error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* fix xpu full kernel error

* polish details

* add place for lib storage

* add scale xpu kernel

* add scale xpu kernel

* add scale xpu kernel

* replace with pten scale kernel

* change dev_ctx

* modify float16 head path

* remove unused xpu header