Optimize dot product of Matmul_v2 

* modify sparse_attention docs, test=develop

* add warning

* add warning ,test=document_fix

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* reshape kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs when run ci

* support xpu for reshape

* fix bugs when run unittest in kunlun ci

* fix compile bugs when run kunlun

* perfect code according to suggestion

Modify serveral implements on CinnLaunchOp：
1. Skip checking input variables must be used 
2. Move current helper functions to a CinnlaunchContext 

* fix bug:
1. atten: set the default value of attn_dropout_rate to None
2. ffn: add activation parameter

* graph engine demo

* upload unsaved changes

* fix dependency error

* fix shard_num problem

* py client

* remove lock and graph-type

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* add load direct graph

* batch random_sample

* batch_sample_k

* fix num_nodes size

* batch brpc

* batch brpc

* add test

* add test

* add load_nodes; change add_node function

* change sample return type to pair

* resolve conflict

* resolved conflict

* resolved conflict

* separate server and client

* merge pair type

* fix

* resolved conflict

* fixed segment fault; high-level VLOG for load edges and load nodes

* random_sample return 0

* rm useless loop

* test:load edge

* fix ret -1

* test: rm sample

* rm sample

* random_sample return future

* random_sample return int

* test fake node

* fixed here

* memory leak

* remove test code

* fix return problem

* add common_graph_table

* random sample node &test & change data-structure from linkedList to vector

* add common_graph_table

* sample with srand

* add node_types

* optimize nodes sample

* recover test

* random sample

* destruct weighted sampler

* GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* WeightedGraphEdgeBlob to GraphEdgeBlob

* pybind sample nodes api

* pull nodes with step

* fixed pull_graph_list bug; add test for pull_graph_list by step

* add graph table;name

* add graph table;name

* add pybind

* add pybind

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* add FeatureNode Serialize

* get_feat_node

* avoid local rpc

* fix get_node_feat

* fix get_node_feat

* remove log

* get_node_feat return  py:bytes

* merge develop with graph_engine

* fix threadpool.h head

* fix

* fix typo

* resolve conflict

* fix conflict

* recover lost content

* fix pybind of FeatureNode

* recover cmake

* recover tools

* resolve conflict

* resolve linking problem

* code style

* change test_server port

* fix code problems

* remove shard_num config

* remove redundent threads

* optimize start server

* remove logs

* fix code problems by reviewers' suggestions

* move graph files into a folder

* code style change

* remove graph operations from base table

* optimize get_feat function of graph engine

* fix long long count problem

* remove redandunt graph files

* remove unused shell

* recover dropout_op_pass.h

* fix potential stack overflow when request number is too large & node add & node clear & node remove

* when sample k is larger than neigbor num, return directly

* using random seed generator of paddle to speed up

* fix bug of random sample k

* fix code style

* fix code style

* add remove graph to fleet_py.cc

* fix blocking_queue problem

* fix style

* fix

* recover capacity check

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* add remove graph node; add set_feature

* fix distributed op combining problems

* optimize

* remove logs

* fix MultiSlotDataGenerator error

* cache for graph engine

* fix type compare error

* more test&fix thread terminating problem

* remove header

* change time interval of shrink

* use cache when sample nodes

* remove unused function

* change unique_ptr to shared_ptr

* simplify cache template

* cache api on client

* fix

* reduce sample threads when cache is not used

* reduce cache memory
Co-authored-by: NHuang Zhengjie <270018958@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: NWeiyue Su <weiyue.su@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nsuweiyue <suweiyue@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nluobin06 <luobin06@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nliweibin02 <liweibin02@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Ntangwei12 <tangwei12@baidu.com>

Fix Paddle-CINN CI

* test

* rm test

* add memory_sparse_table and brpc communication upgrade dependency

* fix

* add dense optimizer & fix dump bug & add some strategy fields

* fix

* fix

* remove thread_pool thread_queue

* add memory sparse table

* update memory sparse table

* update memory sparse table

* update cmake

* upgrade brpc_ps_client

* remove show/click_const in ctr_accessor

* fix deconstructor

* adjust the param of full_like api  in pten

* adjust the code format

* adjust the code format

* adjust the code format

* split declaration and implementation

* remove initdevices

* refine VariableMetaInfo

* add ut

* fix compile

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix_qkv_plugin: half_scale

* [Paddle-Inference] fix_qkv_plugin: fix half scale

[CPU-PSLIB] Fix bug for consistency insepection of op's embedding name and sparse table name in config_fleet.py (#36753)

* [CPU-PSLIB] Fix bug for consistency insepection of op's embedding name and sparse table name in config_fleet.py

* [CPU-PSLIB] Fix bug for consistency insepection of op's embedding name and sparse table name in config_fleet.py

* add AutoConvert

* add unitest

* amend merge&slice

* amend default dist_attr

* update doc&improve coverage

* add interface dist_context

* tiny modify

* elementwise_add kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs in elementwise_add refactor

* fix compile bugs when run in npu/xpu

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run ci-windows

* modify code as recommended

* code format adjust

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bug when run in ci-windwos

* update readme test=document_fix

* update readme;test=document_fix

* Add default arg to enhance varbase ClearGradient func

* Removed default arg, use a Flag to enhance varbase ClearGradient func

* Renamed Flags to FLAGS_real_release

* Use default arg to enhance varbase ClearGradient func and expose two func to set/get gradient isEmpty

* Removed DECLARE_bool statement

* Polished Code

Add test property RUN_TYPE=CINN to CINN unit tests. It will restrict Paddle-CINN CI to run these unit tests only.

* add where/where_index/masked_select for kunlun

* fix where/where_index

* update where/masked_select

* added softplus + activation fuse plass

* minor change

* implemented reviewer suggestion

* minor fix

* minor fix

* added scale_out parameter

* minor fix

* fix for iScan CI

* conditionally disabled logs

* refactored pass builder

* fleet support elastic train

* fleet support elastic train

* support elastic

* add unittest

* fix unitest bug

* fix unittest bug

* fix unittest bug

* fix unittest coverage

* fix unittest coverage

* fix unittest coverage

* fix unittest coverage

* fix unittest coverage

* fix elastic bug

* fix ci fail

* fix ci fail

* fix elastic bug

* fix elastic bug

* fix joint debugging bug

* fix joint debugging bug

* fix windows ci failed

* fix windows ci failed

* Add macro required by CINN.

* Remove CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE form cinn.cmake.

* change username

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* update

* update

* update unittests

* fix

* update

* fix

* update

* fix

* fix

* fix

* update

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

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* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update send_and_recv op. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix ut. test=develop

* fix unit. notest,test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* update. notest,test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix. notest, test=coverage

* fix. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* add func. notest, test=coverage

* fix ut. notest, test=coverage

* fix. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* Expose func for varbase

* Expose func for varbase and enhance varbase init func

* Change func name and add test case for _CopyGradientWith

* Rename func

* Add test cases to increase coverage

* Refine the logic of _to func

* Replace numel() with _numel(), Add test code