* add macro control in enforce_xpu.h, test=kunlun

* minor bugfix

* minor bugfix

* compile into one static library

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix inference compile

* fix inference compile

* add custom test

* revert one file

* update xccl lib
    * use separate streams for compute/comm on XPU
    * add broadcast op to xpu2_op_list

* update xpu depends
*test=kunlun

* minor
*test=kunlun
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* support kps backend and compile

* resolve conflict

* fix kps backend trans

* test in xpu2 device

* remove dummy kernel

* rename pten_utils to phi_utils

* rename pten_utils target

* rename Pten to Phi

* replace pten with phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi

* fix infrt compile failed

* resolve conflict

* change Vector to std::vector and provide MixVector class as a helper wrapper class

* solve the multi-gpu hang problem

* remove the duplicate template instantialize

* Copy vector to cpu

* add CopyToCPU

* xxx

* final version: fix the problem of all reduce

* remove mixvector dependence

* fix

* merge

* fix code

* fix by CI

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed