[Bugfix] recompute dep filter param (#49010)

* recompute dep filter param

* recompute dep for reshard

python/paddle/distributed/auto_parallel/reshard.py

@@ -2497,6 +2497,8 @@ class Resharder:
             "read",
             "write_to_array",
             "read_from_array",
+            "nop",
+            "depend",
         ]
         global _g_special_ops
         skip_ops += _g_special_ops

python/paddle/distributed/auto_parallel/utils.py

@@ -2168,6 +2168,9 @@ def insert_dependencies_for_two_ops(
 
     def _select_best_depend_var(vars):
 
+        # parameter should not be dep var since it maybe partition in sharding pass
+        vars = [var for var in vars if not var.is_parameter]
+        assert len(vars) > 0
         vars_with_numels = [(var, get_var_numel(var)) for var in vars]
         vars_with_numels.sort(key=lambda x: x[1])