Update paddle_build.bat to remove op grad when build windows inference lib (#33800)

1. check status of remove op grad shell scripts
2. Update paddle_build.bat to remove op grad when build windows inference lib
3. add inference demo test after build finish

paddle/scripts/paddle_build.bat

@@ -217,9 +217,12 @@ rem ------Build windows inference library------
 set ON_INFER=ON
 set WITH_PYTHON=OFF
 set CUDA_ARCH_NAME=All
+python %work_dir%\tools\remove_grad_op_and_kernel.py
+if %errorlevel% NEQ 0 exit /b 1
 
 call :cmake || goto cmake_error
 call :build || goto build_error
+call :test_inference || goto test_inference_error
 call :zip_cc_file || goto zip_cc_file_error
 call :zip_c_file || goto zip_c_file_error
 goto:success