* Renamed selected_rows.* -> selected_rows_utils.*

* Added selected_rows and rw_lock to pten

* Removed useless header

* Renamed the unit test target to fix CI

* Use pten::framework::DDim

* Set selceted_rows_test properties timeout

* Polish code to pten style
Co-authored-by: NChen Weihang <chenweihang@baidu.com>