* [CINN]Enhance CacheKey hash logic by considering input dtypes (#50557)

* [CINN]Enhance CacheKey hash logic by considering input dtypes

* add unittest

* fix typo

* fix typo

* fix map.at

* fix find

* fix test

* fix cinn cache key structure realize

* using ordered map for attributes

* add test by review advice

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Co-authored-by: Njiangcheng <thisjiang@qq.com>

* [prim] enable dygraph_to_static to support custom_vjp

* fix code in a dy2static-friendly way.

* [dystatic] add hooker for prim

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Co-authored-by: NAurelius84 <zhangliujie@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Njiangcheng <thisjiang@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Ncxxly <chenxx_id@163.com>