* [CppExtension Cuda] Add cuda unit test for CppExtension

* update extra_compile_args for CUDAExtension

* add debug info

* Add patch to fix CUDA12 compile error

* patch for all env

* add windows judgement

* Try to fix setup function not found error

* fix mix_relu_and_extension include file

* fix setup compile error

* remove useless debug comments

* add sleep, debug CI-build

* add space to disable cmake cache

* remove debug info

* add space to pass CI-build