【New IR】 backward gradients accumulate test and pulish append_backward_ops func for op_pattern  (#56265)

* [prim][newir] add basic framework for primitive

* support desctensor in new ir

* add vjp interface

* support vjp in new ir

* support vjp in new ir

* polish vjp interface

* fix stop_gradients set

* fix vjp dispatch

* add comment

* add vjp test for new ir

* add test for tanh vjp

* [prim][newir] add basic framework for primitive

* support desctensor in new ir

* support vjp in new ir

* support vjp in new ir

* polish vjp interface

* fix stop_gradients set

* fix vjp dispatch

* add comment

* add vjp test for new ir

* add test for tanh vjp

* add eager and static backend for warp lower level api

* support call_vjp pybind

* polish code and add test for vjp

* remove useless code

* polish code

* remove useless code

* support mean vjp

* backward origin code

* add test for mean vjp and support has_vjp function

* fix call_vjp

* polish code

* add attrs and dtype interface

* add primitive ops set for backend

* fix compile bugs

* fix some bugs

* fix windows bugs

* add vjp test for tanh_

* fix inference CI

* fix inference ci

* modify fluid cmake

* origin test of tanh and mean passed

* fix conflict

* modify stop_gradient

* remove useless deps

* add cmake

* modify block.ops

* modify test

* fix conflict

* reply review comments

* reply review comments

* pulish code

* fix comment

* fix test

* polish code

* modify backward stop_gradients

* modify static_backend.cc

* refactor grad_op

* support add and add_inplace vjp

* remove useless code

* remove useless code

* remove cout

* modify add_n

* modify add_n with add_vjp test

* modify add_n with add_vjp test

* fix conflict and concat call_vjp

* modify backward test

* Add more gen api

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