* [Phi&CustomOp] Remove deprecated enum PlaceType for custom op & add warning (#41647)

* remove old custom op placetype

* replace dist  placetype using

* add with gpu macro

* fix mutable_data error

* fix set value error

* add comment

* remove all is initialized using (#41766)

* remove inner_place using (#41768)

* polish tensor depreacted method warning (#41807)

* [CustomOp] Fix PlaceType related compat error (#41826)

* fix place type related compat error

* fix test failed

* remove dll decl

* revert place type change

* add dll decl

* resolve conflict