* support SelectedRows in dygraph, test=develop

* fix bug of _grad_ivar interface, test=develop

* add optest for support seletedrows, test=develop

* fix bug for gradient_accumulator in GPU mode, test=develop

* fix error when Selectedrows addto LodTensor in sorted_gradient mdoe in dygraph, test=develop

* refine and simplify gradient accumulator code, test=develop

* add optest, test=develop

* add optest and simplify code, test=develop

* fix bug for test_imperative_selected_rows, test=develop

* add optest for Coverage, test=develop

* fix gradient interface and simplify code, test=develop

* update api for gradient, test=develop

* fix ShareDim's bug in DygraphExecutionContext class, test=develop

* add optest, test=develop