* decouple memory copy

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci compile bugs

* fix rocm compile

* fix ci bugs

* decouple memory

* deal with conflict

* fix xpu compile bugs

* fix xpu bugs

* deal with xpu bugs

* fix cmake bugs

* fix windows bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* delete redundance code

* add code for pybind

* fix py3 bugs

* fix ci bugs