[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* [XPU] update conv padding

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* [XPU] exclude xpu for passes

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* fix conv padding compute

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* [NPU] update 2-pad to 4-pad for conv and conv_transpose

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* reuse UpdatePadding code

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fix errors for conv and conv_transpose
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* fix conv 2-pad to 4-pad

* fix compute conv shape

* fix pad, test=develop

* change conv_depthwise_3x3s1_fp.cc name to conv3x3s1p01_depthwise_fp32.cc to distinguish between conv3x3s1_depthwise_fp32.cc

* delete printf note in conv3x3s1, test=develop

* delete printf note, test=develop

* delete gem_sdot.h, test=develop

it is coped from __gemm_sdot_meta_.h

* update compute padding, test=develop

* fix padding size, must be 2 or 4. test=develop

* fix format in operators/conv_op.cc, test=develop

* change #if 0 to #if 1, test=develop

* put 2-pad to 4-pad in AttachImpl, test=develop

* fix clang-format error inn tests/math/connv_compute_test, test=develop

* fix x86 test result error, test=develop

* add asymmetric padding test case in liite/tests/math/conv_compute.cc, test=develop

* change paddings type to support dynamically modify, test=develop

* fix x86 build error in connv_compute_test, test=develop

* fix opencl build error, test=develop

* fix oopencl build error, test=develop

* fix  opencl/conv_compute build error, test=develop

* fix  opencl/conv_compute build error, test=develop

* fix format in kernels/opencl/conv_computte_ttest,test=develop

* fix build error, test=develop

fix build error in kernels/x86/conv_compute.h

[LITE][NPU] Add fusion_elementwise_add_activation bridge, remove the limitation of the dimensions of input tensors in the graph compute kernel, and refine log message (#2395)

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* Add supporting for Huawei offical DDK
* Fix the param of graph op in NPU graph computing kernel

* move lite/backends/npu/bridges --> lite/kernels/npu/

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* fix namespace for npu

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* mv npu runtime file to lite/backends/npu

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* [NPU] Fix the bug of loading multi NPU models
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* [NPU] Use lite tensor to store NPU model, fix the management of multi NPU models, support loading NPU model from memory and reduce the modification of framework
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* [NPU] Remove redundant header files for NPU bridges,
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* [NPU] fix NPU deps
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* [NPU] refine the compiling script for NPU
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* [NPU] remove redundant subdirectory in lite/CMakeLists.txt
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* [NPU] Fix and refine NPU test case
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* [NPU] revoke the modification of other non-NPU modules
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* [NPU] Remove NPU bridges if target is tiny publish
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* [NPU] fix conv2d npu bridge, supports bias from input map
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* [NPU] support more dimensions for the bias of conv2d NPU bridge
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