[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

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* fix pooling bug and speed

* fix build error

* delete VLOGin pool, test=develop

* add openmp, test=develop

* fix lite/kernels/arm/pool_compute_test basic_pooling compute error bug, test=develop

* update pooling 2-pad to 4-pad, test=develop

* fix 2-pad to 4-pad in operators/pool_op.h, AttachKernel will set param, so 2-pad to 4-pad funcs should put in AttachKernel. test=ddevellop

* put 2-pad to 4-pad in AttachImpl, test=develop

* according to reviews, fix some format error. test=develop

* fix format errorr, add (). test=develop

* change paddings type to support dynamically modify, test=develop

* update padding type int other devices, test=develop

* fix x8d build error on shared_ptr, test=ddevelop

* fix formmat in operators pool_op.cc, test=develop

[LITE][NPU] Add fusion_elementwise_add_activation bridge, remove the limitation of the dimensions of input tensors in the graph compute kernel, and refine log message (#2395)

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* Add supporting for Huawei offical DDK
* Fix the param of graph op in NPU graph computing kernel

* move lite/backends/npu/bridges --> lite/kernels/npu/

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* fix namespace for npu

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* mv npu runtime file to lite/backends/npu

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* [NPU] Fix the bug of loading multi NPU models
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* [NPU] Use lite tensor to store NPU model, fix the management of multi NPU models, support loading NPU model from memory and reduce the modification of framework
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* [NPU] Remove redundant header files for NPU bridges,
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* [NPU] fix NPU deps
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* [NPU] refine the compiling script for NPU
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* [NPU] remove redundant subdirectory in lite/CMakeLists.txt
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* [NPU] Fix and refine NPU test case
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* [NPU] revoke the modification of other non-NPU modules
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* [NPU] Remove NPU bridges if target is tiny publish
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* fix bug: npu permute's input w need unique name

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* fix bn, eltwise, pool, shuffle_channel, softmax, transpose unique name

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