[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* Initial support for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Move XPU op kernel bridges from backends to kernels to fix deps order
* Change the namespace and directory of XPU bridges
* Add XPU SDK
* Fix header files and namespace of XPU SDK
* Add unit tests for relu and conv2d ops
* Restore the modification of paddle_api_test
* Supports simple model which contains only a relu layer
* Add compiling scripts for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Add comments for XPU LoadModel and BuildModel