* reduce .so size. test=develop

* compile all targets when LITE_ON_TINY_PUBLISH=OFF

* unordered_map is more convenient when key is customized class

* test=develop

[LITE][NPU] Add instance_norm op bridge and unit test, refine the registration of op bridges (#2747)

* Fix the compiling error which occurs when specify the ddk_root path and build for huawei NPU.

* Refine the registration of op bridges and make it similar to the registration of op and kernel.

* Refine the interfaces of the graph and node for op bridges, and support creating constant and data node automatically according to the attribute 'persistable' of the target tensor.

* Add the unit test of the scale and softmax op bridge for NPU.

* Support multiple types for XPU and NPU op bridges

* Add lookup_table, gather, slice, stack and scale op bridges for supporting BERT

* Fix the definition of lookup_table kernel for X86

[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* move lite/backends/npu/bridges --> lite/kernels/npu/

test=develop

* fix namespace for npu

test=develop

* mv npu runtime file to lite/backends/npu

test=develop