[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* Initial support for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Move XPU op kernel bridges from backends to kernels to fix deps order
* Change the namespace and directory of XPU bridges
* Add XPU SDK
* Fix header files and namespace of XPU SDK
* Add unit tests for relu and conv2d ops
* Restore the modification of paddle_api_test
* Supports simple model which contains only a relu layer
* Add compiling scripts for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Add comments for XPU LoadModel and BuildModel

* add shell file to automatically build and collect publish result test=develop
* modify API inference of model_optimize_tool and add option for tiny&full publish test=develop

* [NPU] Fix the bug of loading multi NPU models
test=develop

* [NPU] Use lite tensor to store NPU model, fix the management of multi NPU models, support loading NPU model from memory and reduce the modification of framework
test=develop

* [NPU] Remove redundant header files for NPU bridges,
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* [NPU] fix NPU deps
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* [NPU] refine the compiling script for NPU
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* [NPU] remove redundant subdirectory in lite/CMakeLists.txt
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* [NPU] Fix and refine NPU test case
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* [NPU] revoke the modification of other non-NPU modules
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* [NPU] Remove NPU bridges if target is tiny publish
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* [Cxx API] add build-in version info

* update: add version.h.in template

* paddle lite cuda init
can run model with leaky_relu

* add the missing file.
test=develop