*Pool2d supports adaptive param

1. add conv_5x5s2_dw to support any padding
2. add 1x1s2pooling impl
3. fix conv dw 3x3 s1p01 bug

* fix pooling bug and speed

* fix build error

* delete VLOGin pool, test=develop

* add openmp, test=develop

* fix lite/kernels/arm/pool_compute_test basic_pooling compute error bug, test=develop

* update pooling 2-pad to 4-pad, test=develop

* fix 2-pad to 4-pad in operators/pool_op.h, AttachKernel will set param, so 2-pad to 4-pad funcs should put in AttachKernel. test=ddevellop

* put 2-pad to 4-pad in AttachImpl, test=develop

* according to reviews, fix some format error. test=develop

* fix format errorr, add (). test=develop

* change paddings type to support dynamically modify, test=develop

* update padding type int other devices, test=develop

* fix x8d build error on shared_ptr, test=ddevelop

* fix formmat in operators pool_op.cc, test=develop

* fix pooling bug and speed

* fix build error

* delete VLOG in pool, test=develop

* add openmp, test=develop

* fix lite/kernels/arm/pool_compute_test basic_pooling compute error bug, test=develop